MANNERS QUOTES IV

quotations about manners

Manners are what is left when serious issues of human relations are removed from consideration; yet without manners serious human relations are impossible.

MARK CALDWELL

A Short History of Rudeness


Lack of manners is the sign of a hero.

JEAN COCTEAU

Opium

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One of the most important rules of the science of manners is an almost absolute silence in regard to yourself.

HONORÉ DE BALZAC

La Comédie Humaine

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Good manners is the art of making those people easy with whom we converse; whoever makes the fewest persons uneasy is the best bred man in company.

JONATHAN SWIFT

A Treatise on Good Manners and Good Breeding

Tags: Jonathan Swift


Fine manners are the mantle of fair minds.

AMOS BRONSON ALCOTT

Tablets

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Call a jack a jack. Call a spade a spade. But always call a whore a lady. Their lives are hard enough, and it never hurts to be polite.

PATRICK ROTHFUSS

The Name of the Wind


Suit your manner to the man.

TERENCE

Adelphi

Tags: Terence


Many a worthy man sacrifices his peace to formalities of compliments and good manners.

L'ESTRANGE

attributed, Day's Collacon


What once were vices, are now the manners of the day.

SENECA THE YOUNGER

Epistolae Ad Lucilium


Manners are rituals, too. They are repeated actions the culture or society has agreed on to smooth our relations with each other.

ELIZABETH HOFFMAN REED

Gathering at the Table


I don't mind if you don't like my manners. They're pretty bad. I grieve over them during the long winter evenings.

RAYMOND CHANDLER

The Big Sleep

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Perhaps instead of teaching manners, parents should teach the statistical probability that the person you are speaking to is just as good as you are.

BERTRAND RUSSELL

Mortals and Others

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As the best law is founded upon reason, so are the best manners. And as some lawyers have introduced unreasonable things into common law, so likewise many teachers have introduced absurd things into common good manners.

JONATHAN SWIFT

A Treatise on Good Manners and Good Breeding

Tags: Jonathan Swift


Manners are tell-tales of men.

THEODORE TILTON

Sanctum Sanctorum


Good men ought to let the world see that their manners are more firm than an oath.

SOCRATES

attributed, Day's Collacon


Nothing, except what flows from the heart, can render even external manners truly pleasing.

HUGH BLAIR

Sermons


Good manners are made up of petty sacrifices.

RALPH WALDO EMERSON

Letters and Social Aims

Tags: Ralph Waldo Emerson


A moral, sensible, and well-bred man
Will not affront me, and no other can.

WILLIAM COWPER

Conversation

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All Politeness is owing to Liberty. We polish one another, and rub off our Corners and rough Sides by a sort of amicable Collision. To restrain this, is inevitably to bring a Rust upon Mens Understandings.

ANTHONY ASHLEY-COOPER

"Sensus Communis", Characteristicks of Men, Manners, Opinions, Times


Manners are primarily codes by which we express relationships, particularly status, and are thus contingent upon power. There is nothing absolute about manners: doing or not doing something does not mean it is good or bad manners, but depends upon the people and the context.

DAVID TRIPP

Critical Incidents in Teaching: Developing Professional Judgement